I’m an astrology devotee with friends and lovers all over the charts. And as a creative air sign Gemini, I’m no stranger to certain signs being delulu. One of my besties, for example, is a Pisces, and he’s really out there sometimes in terms of having one foot (fin?) on the planet and the other in the clouds. Having been the toast of downtown Manhattan, he’s an attractive, magnetic social creature and is my favorite conversation partner on all things from musical theatre to the work of Nicole Kidman. But—whereas I’ll zone out in the endless career and home grind, he’s following his nose toward his passions, sometimes at the expense of mundanities like future planning. And while I’m sometimes overly fixated on insecurity, he’s setting standards beneath which he refuses to compromise. Over the years, my Pisces pool buddy (he does love a sunny resort, as do I) and I have sparred about, shared and ultimately compromised on the way to lead a life—with me coming to understand his focus on entertainment is certainly as valid as my boring TikTok finfluencer follows. And to his credit, I’ve seen my Pisces bestie really step up in terms of family and friend caregiving—which shows me that if I too engage in a little magical thinking, too, I won’t just forget what (and who) is important in life.

3 Zodiac Signs Always Getting in Their Own Way

I was wondering what signs in the astro-universe are delulu, because they have something to teach us, so I asked an expert. “When it comes to astrology, sometimes being a little “delulu” is the only way to survive,” psychic Hilary Coke says. “Certain zodiac signs commit to their dreams, no matter how far-fetched they seem.” Read on to see if you know one of these chimerical creatures—or might be one yourself. (Added bonus—there’s one sign who could really take a lesson from these delulu signs to lighten up.)

Hillary Coke is a Western Astrologer and Tarot expert at Nebula, a new spiritual guidance platform. Coke helps users find clarity and insight through personal readings to guide users in making decisions, resolving conflicts and understanding the spiritual lessons in your life. Nebula offers one-to-one chats with over 1,000 global psychics, available 24/7 and including Western and Vedic astrology, Tarot readings, numerology, palmistry, aura scanning and more. It’s guidance on love, relationships, money, career and everything that matters.